hey so, im not sure if it’s because he is just very big, but every time i have sex with the boy i’m seeing it’s so painful, but it’s n internal pain, like in my lower stomach and it’s really quite unbearable. Anybody have any tips or advice? i’ve never had it with anyone but the last two men i’ve slept with, who were both quite big yk, so idk if i just can’t take it lol but it’s sooo painful. xx

Are you getting like 30 mins plus of foreplay focused on you? Using lube? Are you comfortable and relaxed during sex?

Is he hitting your cervix?

@bluerose9 lots of foreplay and i am confortable, and turned on and everything bc it’s not like a friction pain due to dryness, it’s like a really bad cramp i really dk what it is

@Yi_eune potentially? i’m not sure how to tell but it definitely feels like he’s hitting something lol

Tell him not to go as deep

Bad cramp sounds like your cervix, so advise would be as @aurielle Said

If he’s hitting your cervix, it can hurt. But also, things like endometriosis can cause sex to be painful. Might be worth looking into.

@jasmineshado i was nervous about this too, how would i look into it? just booking an appointment with a gp? x