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Jul 10
19:27
Me and my boyfriend just started having sex like two months ago but we pretty much do it once or twice a week. He is my first , but on the first month we did it . It was very painful for me , we couldn’t even get it in or even a finger cause it was too painful. But since we have been doing it, i am getting more comfortable, he can put his finger in me now (two even) and feels good but sometimes feels like there’s something sharp. We can also put his thing inside me now , but i can only go half way , and it still kinda hurts to the point i have to scream sometimes but its tolerable now compared to the first month. Is this going to be better? Cause i really just wanna experience to have a ‘good sex’ or what should i do to get my cooch to be a little bbit loose
 
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Jul 10
19:44
definitely don’t have sex if it hurts, the best sex for you shouldn’t be “tolerable” it should feel good, make sure you get 30+ mins of foreplay before sex- this doesn’t have to be penetration with fingers, it could be cliteral stimulation and maybe even introduce lube
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Jul 10
21:03
Might be sharp cuz his nails. Get him to trim them and file it so its not sharp. Not sure why sex hurts for you, do you feel comfortable? Cuz if your mentals not in it it might make you not wet enough or overly aware of everything. Like other user said, practice foreplay, kiss touch explore each other and when youre ready and you want it you can try again
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Jul 10
21:15
You need lots and lots more foreplay and lube. If you're experiencing pain it's because you're not properly aroused. When fully aroused the vagina expands up to 2-3 times its normal size and self-lubricates. Pain means you're not properly prepared for penetration. Make sure you're doing lots of other things besides penetration to get you aroused, oral can be great preparation as well. You should be wet and expanded to the point that everything slides easily in.
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Jul 10
22:41
^ all of the above. Sex should not be painful and if it is, stop. Foreplay is key. Use lube. Another thing, when it has before you will be expecting it to hurt again and will tense up in anticipation of that. That will make it worse. Make a conscious effort to relax your body and your muscles.
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