@Kitty_cat Even though he only has them every other weekend you need to remember that if he is a good dad he will prioritize his children over you, he probably won’t be able to move too far away from them, you might not be able to travel freely with him, if you move in together the children will be in your home, his bm will always be part of his life, he might not want more children in the future since he already has children which can be a problem if you want children etc. So while it can definitely work there are still a lot of things to think about and to dicuss. Because even though it can be easy at first to date someone with children the children are still a big part of his life and if it gets more serious between you two they probably will be part of your life too sooner or later.