I can only really climax with a vibrator? I feel a bit ashamed because men have said to me before ‘why have you done that to yourself you are desensitised’ i can make myself climax with my fingers but only sometimes. Anyone else have this?

I don’t think that’s unusual, we’re all different. Those comments are rude, unnecessary and disrespectful in my opinion.

It's myth that you can densensitize yourself with a vibrator. Everyone is different when it comes to orgasms and there's nothing wrong with needing something specific! Men who shame you for needing a vibrator are insecure and don't care about your pleasure.

Those men need to be put in the bin 🗑️

I bet they’re the type of guys that watch porn & j*rk off all the time as well

There are lots of women who can only orgasm with a vibrator. Vibrators are the single most effective way to achieve orgasm and are wonderful tools to use in the bedroom! Try not to let this bloke’s comments affect your confidence. He sounds a little insecure and might just need to be reminder that it’s not a reflection on him.