Guys, so 99% of the time when a guy hits on me and I shut him down I don’t feel guilty at all. Recently, though, one of my classmates hit on me. I send him and another girl pictures of the exams because I took the class last semester (please don’t get into the morality of this. A & P is hard af and every bit helps lol) and I told him I’d send him the pictures for the next exam over the weekend and he said, “maybe I can just go over to your house to take pictures of them” in a very flirtatious manner. It made me so uncomfortable that now I don’t even want to talk to him in class but now I feel so guilty, which is so dumb. I don’t owe him anything and I was doing him a favor so i have every right to revoke that if I want. So how do i stop myself from feeling guilty?

He did it to himself ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ he should’ve known better than to make you uncomfortable, don’t feel guilty

Well, you didn’t in fact do anything wrong or disrespectful towards your boyfriend so you actually have no reason to feel guilty, maybe just cut him off now or tell him off so it doesn’t go any further

I’d be careful. He could report that you’ve been sending him pics of tests and that would be academic dishonesty on your part, and if your school is anything like mine, could kick you out. I’d tell him you want to remain friends but that’s it.

@xyzm I don’t think the guilt is about any boyfriend, but about turning the guy down. @kataraa_ I’ve been in this situation a few times, really awkward. I always play dumb and pretend I don’t notice the advances while at the same time talking about my boyfriend/other guys and just showing him this is exclusively friendship. I find it helps if the guy can save som face as opposed to a full-on confrontation about it.