This might be a weird one but I need advise. My boyfriend and I had sex an hour or so ago and half way through we tried to change position but I ended up getting really dry so he took off that condom and put on another one. He didn't pinch the top of the condom the whole way down but there was still the bit at the top. Anyways after he finished, we checked to see if the condom was okay and it didn't Rip but when he took it off he said he noticed that lower down on his dick was wet (he doesn't know if it was lube or semen) and we later noticed there is a white stain on my black bed sheets. Which we think might be cum. I am usually really good at taking my pill but I've had such a stressful and bust week between college and work I'm not sure if I missed one or two this week as Ilost my first packet of pills and started taking from another before finding the first packet again and going back to that so all the days are messed up. I have never got the morning after pill before and I would be quite nervous to get it because I've read on here it messes with your body. But does it seem like a good idea to take it just incase? If so what are the side effects? Also my boyfriend and I have only had sex about 4 times now and he was a virgin before we got together so he is a little more paranoid about these things. Idk if it's just that getting in my head as well or is it something to be worried about? Thanks in advance guys!

Do you know what day you started taking the pill, or can you figure it out? You might be able to nail down exactly if you’re protected or not?

It sounds to me like you used the condoms correctly

Did you take 7+ pills correctly before you think you could have missed any pills? Do you think the missed pills were within 7 days of each other?

I'm on my break week at the moment. I took my last pill on Tuesday . I think the missed pills were in 7 days of each other and yeah I took them correctly

I mean I took the ones I missed before correctly

You should take plan B if that makes you less stressed. Plan B will just give you a little irregular bleeding because of the hormones, but I’m sure you’ll be fine if you take it. It has worked for me every time.

Cause you’ve taken your break after missing those pills you are unprotected (so make sure you take 7+ active pills correctly before you have condomless sex), however it does sound like you used the condom correctly to me anyway? It’s normal for his whole dick to be wet after sex - from your vagina or lube. If you checked it wasn’t ripped again the end and the condom didn’t fall off during then I think you’re fine x

That's what I was thinking but it's just the white stain on the bed I'm worried about

Probably from you or was there before

@Awg1 thank you for your help!!!

The white stain on the bed is likely from you.