My boyfriend has been talking about the future with me a lot almost everytime we hung out (marriage, babies etc). This past month he hasn’t brought it up at all. Should I be worried?

I don’t think that’s something that needs to be talked about constantly. If you established that you both have the same long term goals, that’s enough in my opinion, especially at the start of a relationship. If there’s anything in particular you want to say to him, then just say it.

It’s important to have the same general views. I wouldn’t be worried about this when you’ve only recently started dating.

I’d really recommend therapy if you aren’t already going. You’re overthinking almost everything in this relationship and the same thing happened in the last. It can’t be fun and it can be detrimental to your mental health and to your relationship.

^ imo you seem to overanalyse and ask for a lot of external support for a lot of things in your relationship. I definitely would recommend working on being able reassure yourself and trust your own instincts and judgement more, for your own sake and sanity as well as for your relationship.