So recently my mom started a huge fight with me and my fiancé. She has very high jealous tendencies and gets very reactive at times. Because of this, it changed my fiancés feelings toward my mom and he doesn’t like her. This is hard for me because I love my mom but I also love my fiancé. Is this something that can coexist? My fiancé is valid but my mom does mean well. It just makes me sad and anxious honestly. I’ve gone through a big life change where I graduated college and just started my job so everything in life feels weird and different

I would limit the time they spend together. Your mom may mean well but your fiancé isn’t wrong for not wanting to spend time with a jealous and reactive person.

Honestly this is a super common scenario and yes it can coexist. @sitwithwhit on instagram does a lot of content around this theme, it might be helpful for you