If ur bf likes pics from girls in bikini ,would you mind ?

no. it’s only a like button and i feel like people put too much meaning to it

No. It’s not that deep. How do you know he’s liking those pictures?

It’s just a picture.

me personally yes it just depends on boundaries

No, I like girls in bikinis as well ☺️

No cos I do the same thing lol

No because you're either assuming the girl has sexual intent in wearing a bikini or your boyfriend has sexual thoughts when liking the pic, neither are good ways of thinking

@seechell @Bluerose9 me too 😭 I do the same thing

No lol. If I don’t care if my bf watches porn why would I care if he likes a bikini picture🥴

Social media is meant to be used as that, a social media. That implies likes, comments, following people. I also like pictures of people in bathing suit, underwear, hell naked why not

@kitarah Some of them are fyyyyiiiine as hell I can’t help it 🥲

@seechell Ikr 🥵 I follow like a bunch of lingerie accounts too and they’re all just bombshells 😭

No I wouldn’t care

Depends. If it’s celebrities or influencers , I don’t care. If it’s girls he knows/exes/past situationships etc then it might bother me. But honestly I wish social media wasn’t even a thing. It’s given everyone (men and women) a platform to easily be disloyal to their partner and it happens so easily. I know a girl who was with a guy for 4 years, the relationship was fine, both parties were happy together etc and he started following one of his ex (a girl he didn’t date but slept with etc) on instagram and the girl I know questioned him about it just to be curious, and he said nothing was going on. Turned out he was cheating for a year with this girl behind her back. She would never have found out if it wasn’t for her noticing he had followed this other girl. I hate social media I really do. I think at the end of the day, if someone’s going to cheat, they’re going to do it regardless but social media definitely makes infidelity a lot easier! It’s more sneaky I think! So easy to delete messages etc.

@Princessdiam I don't really think social media is the problem infidelity has existed as long as relationships have.

@aurielle no , of course I’m aware of that hence me saying if someone going to cheat they will regardless but I do think social media has made it easier for people.

No, I wouldn’t care

Agree with @aurielle. When I like pictures of people topless or in a bikini it’s not because I want to fuck them it’s more of a ‘well done you look good’…I don’t think it’s should be an issue at all unless he’s literally spamming girls he doesn’t know.

@princessdiam you could also say it’s made it harder though? As it could be more secretive. I don’t think it’s social media that’s causing the relationship problems x

@sparkle_than I would mind tbh. Esp if I feel uneasy about it. I trust my intuition. But there’s nothing perfect … not people not relationships … so whatever happens or doesn’t happen is just part of the journey. Also someone said sth about boundaries? There’s also the right to privacy. Healthy communication. Trust. For me, there’s a lot that goes into it being “a thing” or not 😕

I dont care what my partner likes on his social media, it's simply a button. But I also wouldn't be aware of what he is liking, I wouldn't be checking up on him

Personally not really a fan of the ‘boundaries’ excuse for completely meaningless things, just enables insecurities.

@Awg1 agree, it’s just an excuse to allow toxic habits.