Trouble feeling connected during sex? Hey girls, need some advice… I’m in a LDR relationship and will be seeing my bf soon after months. Important to mention: last time I saw him I had some bad gastrointestinal issues (still do a bit) so I didn’t feel very good overall and sexual ofc. Idk why I felt like I couldn’t connect with him much. And like it was more of a chore than something I wanted to do. I also felt like the way he touched me wasn’t really reining me on…? Like maybe I was too much in my head, maybe it was bc I was sick, or idk it has never happened before. Overall I’ve noticed I don’t have such a high sex drive anymore. Not even when I’m alone. And my bf it’s the complete opposite. We’ve sort of talked about it but I didn’t say the issue, I just told him ways he could help me at foreplay. But if anyone has any tips about what to do or how to communicate I’d appreciate it🫶🏻

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I think you just need to be honest with him and tell him what you told us. Open communication is incredibly important, even more so in a long distance relationship.

I would tell him how u feel so he can understand, and I had this at the start of my pill we just had to find ways to turn me on , but still some days I don’t bad turned on like I used to before the pill , I think it just comes with part of the pill as we don’t ovulate

Agree with @Yi_eune open up and tell him what you’re feeling. That will strengthen your bond and help him understand better and support you, making you feel more comfortable and connected with each other.