Hi friends! I have pretty bad anxiety and am always feeling anxious and paranoid about whether my boyfriend loves me. He definitely does however I am still super clingy and often feel really sad just after seeing him because I didn’t want to leave. I worry I am annoying him when asking for constant reassurance. What do you guys think? And do you have any tips? Do I need to try to be less clingy? xx
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Apr 9 20:01
Between this and your other post I think you’d benefit from talking to a therapist about how to cope with your anxiety, understand your thoughts and change your thinking patterns x
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Apr 9 20:02
@bluerose9 Thank you I have been thinking about this xx
Apr 9 20:53
I agree with @bluerose9, I think it would be a really good idea to talk to a professional. They can definitely help you!
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Apr 10 11:32
I definitely agree with talking to a therapist, I think a possible solution would also be to work on your independence and self-love. When you have a loving and secure relationship with yourself you won't be as clingy or worry about others not loving you :)