Do you believe that people actually fall out of love or that they go through periods of not feeling the “love” feelings and give up on their relationship? I feel like love is a choice. You choose to love your partner even in the moments where you don’t feel the surge of romantic feelings.

you seem to be having a lot of worries regarding your relationship at the moment, is everything okay? do you have someone you can talk to about your feelings? x

@onthepillxo yes! I struggle with ocd and right now my current theme is pertaining to my relationship. I just wanted to understand more healthy relationship dynamics because I feel like I’ve had an unhealthy mindset

Love is a choice and it’s normal for your love to fluctuate while in a relationship, especially if you’ve got things going on. Expecting to be in a honeymoon phase for your entire relationship will put a strain on it.

But I also do think you can definitely fall out of love with a person. I was mentally checked out of my previous relationship.