how would you feel? me and my bf haven’t done anything in 2 weeks, we both work so sometimes it’s difficult to find time to but we have had multiple chances, he knows i want him to make the move but he never does so i try to and he just jokes it off and changes the subject in a way. this week ive said multiple things to “hint” i want to do stuff or something or even just literally saying i want to and he says “tomorrow” tomorrow comes and nothing happens. idk if he doesn’t like my body anymore or what but we usually used to do stuff a couple times a week so idk what’s wrong

Thats something that you should talk about with him, a relationship is about communication and a healthy sex life.

@GhostFaceLov i’m trying, i was talking about it to him earlier but he barely said anything but “idk maybe bc i was tired” which i understand bc he works 5am-2 but there has been other times he’s not been that tired to watch something or play his game, or days he doesn’t work or work the next day. he was acting rly quiet like he was upset so i asked what was wrong he said “nothing” i said so nothing was ever wrong the way you’ve been acting the past hour? he said no i was just acting the way you wanted me to act. like WHAT?!? i don’t understand him one bit like seriously

like how would i know if i don’t feel good to him? it feels like he don’t wanna be honest bc he don’t wanna hurt my feelings.

It sounds like both of you have communication issues and it’s forming a massive barrier between you guys. Have a serious sit down with him and voice your concerns, don’t be argumentative. If you can’t communicate without arguments it’s best to end it. Same goes for when nothing changes after voicing your concerns. Don’t spend more time on a guy who can’t fulfil your needs.

^ talk openly and stop hinting. Relationships are built on communication, if you’re not properly communicating and you find he refuses to communicate with you properly then honestly it’s time to seriously consider if this is a relationship that is worth staying in. If you feel like he’s not being honest with you then tbh I’d straight up say something like ‘hey I feel like you’re not being entirely open or honest with me recently, I’ve tried to have an open conversation a few times and you don’t seem willing to engage with that, I just wanna check that everything’s okay with you. I’m always here for you’ or something along those lines. There’s going to be times where your libido doesn’t match your partner’s for whatever reason, that’s fine. But it sounds like you’ve got deeper issues in your relationship than that.