Right so I have been in a 2 year long relationship and it’s really healthy and we both love eachother very much but like a couple times i keep getting scared that one day I will randomly hate him or fall out of love with him which I obviously dont want to but I’m just scared of it lol. Is this normal?

Sounds like anxiety? Especially if there’s literally nothing causing/triggering these thoughts. I think it’s normal to have random thoughts like that from time to time, but if it’s happening a lot or really upsetting you, no I don’t think that’s normal

@bluerose9 it’s only happened like 3 times in the past like year so not constantly

I have this fear too but I think it's important to remember that love is not just a feeling, it's a choice. It's totally normal to go through a phase when you're not absolutely in love but in my experience if you're committed it will come back

@Sunrise777 oh I think that’s fine so, like @aurielle said love is a choice, relationships take work and go through ups and downs

are they like intrusive thoughts, does the idea pop into your head randomly and upset you/not go away? or is it a more normal fear, just something you worry about happening? depending on how the thoughts show up there’s different ways to address them.