So I have this “issue” I start to live with my dad he is around his 75 years old, an old school Latino. When I start university he told me no boyfriend until I finish I didn’t lisent and yeah I got into a relationship… he didn’t let me go out with this guy… just with my brother, that relationship ended because other situation. I been single 3 years ago I been very free since then. I go out with my friend and everything. But now I finish university and i kinda into some guy. And im afraid the same thing happens again. I know I old enough but it just a mental trauma that can happen again. I know is ridiculous but any advice that someone have been through this?

Can I ask how old you are? Are you currently living under your father’s roof?

26…yes still living under his roof… waiting for my papers so I can work with my doctor license

You are a grown adult. Latino parents are stubborn but you have to be firm and set boundaries. You can tell your dad you appreciate his concern but you’re an adult. With my mom I basically had to “rebel” to get her to understand that I was going to do what I wanted.

He doesn't need to know all your personal business and who you're going out with. Just tell him you're going out with a friend