Not necessarily, it can be more stressful to have to think of another person’s comfort, schedule, needs, etc. during such a time. And it’s great that he’s said he wants to spend his life with you but that doesn’t change the fact that you haven’t been dating for very long and are still getting to know each other. I would just try and support him and not read into any of this—he’s suffered a death in his family, this isn’t about you.