Got my first boyfriend and after a string of one night stands and fwb the sex is the best I’ve had. I think the emotional connection really helps. However I still can’t cum during sex. He’s made me cum with toys and that but I’d love to come during sex and he wants that too. He gets me so close during penetration but I just can’t get over the edge. Any tips/tricks or is this just something to deal with

Try using toys on your clit while he is penetrating you; most women can’t climax from penetration alone

The vaginal walls actually only have a similar amount of nerve endings as the back of your hand & penises are usually the wrong shape/size to bang the clit from the inside enough to make you orgasm so it’s completely normal that you can’t cum from penetration with a penis alone. Try adding clitoral stuff during it & get him to make you orgasm before sex with fingers/oral.