hi girls, this is quite random and out there but in a difficult situation and looking for some advice my boyfriend told me last night that i am bad at giving head, he says i use too much teeth, i found this really embarrassing and i have asked him previously if he enjoyed it and he said yes but it has only just come out now we have been together for 8 months now and i have not had any physical relationships before him in the past i said that now i know that it was bad i can try and improve and do it again but he wont let me and is refusing to let me try again does anyone have any advice on what i should do? or how i can improve? any help is appreciated xx

So he shared that he doesn’t love your head game. But is now refusing to let you give him head? How does that work? Wouldn’t he have told you so you can improve and be better? That’s a lil confusing. There’s lots of great posts on here about head game that you can look up. There’s always room for improvement especially if you’re just starting out. You will get more comfortable with it the more you do it and the more communication you have with your partner. You should eventually be learning how to please each other in the way yall like to be pleased. But I don’t get why he is refusing to have to try again. I don’t think there’s much you can do if he’s saying no? But you can just express that you do want to do it in a way he likes. But can’t get better if he won’t let you. 🤷🏽‍♀️ but I don’t think anyone is good at stuff that we are just starting out. I remember the first time I gave a hand job I thought I did okay and he was like that was horrible 🤣 and I was like yeah idk what I’m doing with that thing 😂😂 lol you live and you learn. Just takes practice.

While it's important to give feedback on what is and isn't working in bed I don't feel like he communicated this the right way at all. Did he straight up say "you're bad at it"? Really we should try to be more gentle when giving feedback about sex because it's a tricky topic! Also no one just magically knows how to give perfect head, how would you be good at it if you've never done it before? I think giving our partners space to practice and improve is really important. Idk I just don't like the way he approached this at all, it wasn't very sensitive.

When you are giving head, try to release any stress or tension you might carry in your jaw area if you can. Relaxing your mouth can help prevent teeth from getting in the way.

I am not sure why he wouldn't let you try to improve though. You just want to make him happy and it is confusing why he wouldn't let you try. I would talk to him more about it and see why he isn't allowing you room to improve.