Any advice… really like this guy I’m seeing, but I just can’t cum at all during sex. And don’t feel much. Don’t know what to do, as it’s now kinda affecting things.

Have you shown him how to make you cum? Have you talked about what you like during sex? Communicate and explore with consent.

Ya I have told him, but it’s still nothing really working. Even him going down on me. Also his willie isn’t that big😭 I do really like him, but nothing seems to be getting me off at all😭

Size shouldn’t matter, I’ve been with men of different sizes and it really is about how they use it. It must be really frustrating for you. Would you be up to talking to him about it? Maybe he needs more guidance in order to get you to orgasm. Just telling him might not work, maybe physically show him?

Ya it’s soooo tormenting😭 ya I just feel the size does kinda matter, as I seem to feel like nothing. And I do kinda show him but I still don’t feel much. It’s like I can’t full relax and kinda don’t like been seen coming, I think😭

^^ I think you're onto something about letting yourself mentally relax and let go. Can you make yourself orgasm?

Ya I can myself 😭

@McKaka I feel like with men with smaller penis sizes I don’t enjoy it as much, mainly because I like when they can hit my cervix. Not sure if that’s an issue for you, when it’s smaller I just don’t enjoy it. But I’m able to cum during penetrative sex. It sounds like you also may be in your head a bit, maybe have him focus on you in other ways and see if you can find a way to clear your head and focus on the moment.

Ok thank youuu💖