Hey! Just needed to rant, Im 16 and I’ve been dating my bf since April 2025 and I just stalked his exs insta account and..dude she still has pictures of my bf and her like posing tg after a football game or at previous prom/hoco and it makes me actually so mad like ik he would never leave me for her again but oh my gosh it makes me even more insecure and jealous she is in fact insane like actually but it just makes me so furious there still up and she hasn’t deleted them. There’s literally a pic of her at his house in his room taking a pic with him…brooooo kms

I wouldn’t make a big deal out of social media stuff, all that matters is that your bf is with you now and is respectful. Plus he was like 14 when they were together it’s not that serious anyway. I don’t recommend checking your partners ex’s accounts too.

Not everyone deletes photos with exes, I still have all my photos with my past partner up, it does not make you insane.

no no you misunderstood she heavily manipulated him and would harm herself and send pics to my bf as a way to punish him if they got into a small argument.

That must be annoying and I’m sorry, but it’s not a huge deal. Try not to worry about it too much some ppl just choose not to take down posts and I think that’s ok

I can understand where you may feel this way. I mean hs is when I first got experience with boyfriends and jealousy. But this isn’t something you can control. Your partners may always have past partners. You can’t change that. And she can post whatever she wants. Just focus on the fact that he’s with you. This has nothing to do with y’all. This is something that you should really try to let go of. (I know that’s a lot easier said than done) but you literally can’t tell her to take them down yk? I mean she sounds pretty toxic and manipulative, but he’s not with her. And hopefully not in contact with her.

I think you’re best to not look at her social media again and move on. Sounds like she’s not the kind of person to be jealous of or make you feel insecure tbh, she doesn’t sound like a nice person at all and your boyfriend is better off without her. You can’t control what she’s doing or posting so you’re best to let it go and move on.