So when my boyfriend and I started our relationship we didn’t have sex at all for like the first month he wanted to take things slow and be “respectful”
I find that my bf and I are very similar
Now we barely have sex, we barely both initiate
I’m very horny and he is too, we are both humans and have needs but I feel like we barely have any sexual chemistry and I feel that it’s because we didn’t start the relationship off with sexual chemistry so now it’s harder , sometimes it feels more like a friendship than a relationship
I like him very much and I know he does too and I really wouldn’t wanna lose our relationship but I really don’t know what to do anymore
I already have a big problem with initiating sex, but it feels impossible with him
I also feel his body language is very closed and it makes it harder for me to go up to him and cuddle him and hug him and he says that my body language is closed as well
I don’t know what to do anymore and I feel like not having sex is honestly really hard on me, it’s something I personally really need to build more trust and feel closer to my partner
Does anyone have any tips / opinions on this situation?
