Is it wrong of me to ask and have my bf also remind me of my pill aside from the reminder on the app and alarm on my phone? Just as another type of reminder?

I don't think that's wrong, it takes two to get pregnant so contraception is a shared responsibility. He can help out.

No I don’t think it’s wrong, as said above it takes two to get pregnant. My boyfriend reminds me even without telling him just to make sure I have taken it.

has he reacted in a weird way to you asking him to?

It benefits both of you to be cautious, I don’t think that’s wrong at all.

I don’t think it’s wrong but having 3 separate reminders seems a bit much for me. Have you been forgetful about your pill? If you have then maybe a semi-permanent method fits you better.