Been feeling extra anxious and guilty over a night out that was two months ago with my fiancé and his friend. I got pretty drunk and wanted attention from my fiancé’s friend by asking him if he thought I was fat since I have gained the happy relationship weight. I then was being touchy by rolling his sleeve up to look at his tattoo. I made another post about this recently, where I said this guy is not particularly a good guy and objectifies women so to me that night I think I just wanted to feel desirable by someone who was toxic as my fiancé is anything but toxic is so sweet. I know that compliments and things of that nature feels better coming from outside sources as they are perceived as unbiased my fiancé doesn’t think I did anything bad but I can’t get it out of my mind that I low-key flirted. I made a post on Reddit about this and everyone was ripping me apart saying I disrespected my fiancé and I’m embarrassing and all of that I meet with my therapist this week to talk about it more, but I don’t know, just really crappy

the comments on the last post still apply, you shouldn’t really double post as it can get you banned on here :( i honestly wouldn’t worry about it though from a cheating perspective, just sounds like you should talk to your therapist about why you were craving validity from someone other than your partner, especially someone who you perceive as toxic

@onthepillxo oh good tip thanks for letting me know!

You have nothing to feel guilty about (Posting about the same thing multiple times is also against forum rules, just so you know)

Here’s a link so you can re-read the replies to your other post. It is time to find acceptance and move on from this. {qHVWFYNK6}