This post is very TMI and I’m sorry abt that. Me and my boyfriend recently have been started to do sexual things and one of those things includes grinding. I go on top and run up against his yk. Once I find the right pressure and on my clit I start going faster. It gets to the point where my legs shake, and that’s when I stop. Because the feeling gets too intense. Does that mean I was about to come? I’ve never can in my life and I don’t know the feeling, but my boyfriend wants me to feel the feeling and I do aswell. But it’s just so intense that I can’t keep myself going. Does the leg shaking mean I’m close? Should I keep going? Is there another way going about this?

Do you feel any release?

It sounds like you were close to squirting.

@aurielle no not really. Just a really intense feeling and twitchyness

Sounds like you’re stopping just before you reach an orgasm

I’m sorry for the terrible grammar guys and the typos I typed this really fast😅

have you tried to do it on your own time so you can understand what it feels like? that way you could get more comfortable with the feeling!

@kelps I have before but I feel like I do it incorrectly it just doesn’t feel as good as I think it should. I know I probably should experiment so I can help guide my bf, it’s hard to do when I don’t even know what I like! I just don’t know how to make it feel better when I do it myself

@bambi_1959 have you tried clitoral stimulation? that's the only thing that's ever worked for me, fingering was a no, grinding doesn't work for me either. you could always experiment and watch open (only if comfortable of course) to find different ways to try and see what feels good for you! shower heads are also 10/10😅

@kelps haha noted! Yeah same it’s only stimulating the clit that will ever make me close