@Ab567 good point ty. She is still on good terms with the parents and she still sees them regularly. The separation was not amicable at all, but she has been part of the family for 10+ years which is why she is still on good terms with the parents. I only ever really communicate with her in person at family events, we’re not close but I have no bad blood with her and I like her. We just know each other because of the family. I’ll probably get her something small. Thanks for the food for thought!