My boyfriend and I have been together for 2.5 years. We have had our ups and downs but have a lot of love for each other. The relationship is super good. A month ago he came to me saying he is scared of the long-term commitment and unsure of that. He wants to be with me and everything but he is scared. Obviously this hurts but im trying to be there for him and show him everything will be okay. Any suggestions?

What exactly is he scared of? What are his reasons for feeling this way? Does he have some trauma that he's trying to process and move on from? Or does he think he is missing out on something? What is it that is holding him back? I think he needs to do some self-reflection to figure out his needs and wants. And I think therapy would be beneficial for him.

He needs to take some time for himself to figure out what he wants exactly. It’s not fair on you that he isn’t fully committed.

This seems to be a recurring theme/issue in your relationship as you've posted about it multiple times. Maybe it's time to see a couples therapist to try to see if this can be worked out. I think having temporary fears or hesitations about commitment is normal, but if this has been going on for a long time then maybe you guys are not on the same page about the relationship.