Just need to vent again and get some advice. This is in regard to my last post about my ex.
My ex and his mother after I broke it off with him and blocked him everywhere kept trying to reach out to me. His mom called me twice and text me twice, I blocked her on the messaging app on my phone, but somehow she was able to message me on WhatsApp. He called me from an unknown number and then another number and said hi (my name), it’s (his name). And I got scared and hung up and blocked him. It got to a point where I was getting so frustrated that I made my mom and his mom speak.
After that conversation, for some reason, I felt compelled to send him a text yesterday and re-block him. Basically telling my side because it’s been three weeks. I regret doing this so much. He has now messaged me from two different numbers to tell me how terrible I am.
I’m genuinely getting scared. I don’t think he would do anything, but he just keeps insulting me. His mother told me how much he wanted me back and how he keeps begging for me which is manipulative, as well. He kept calling before to get back together. I made clear and my message that I wasn’t. This was the first time I made any contact in three weeks. I definitely should not have.
My question is at what point does this become unsafe? When am I allowed to file a restraining order? I’m going to continue to block him if he keeps reaching out to me the next couple weeks.