Hi y’all! My bf and I have been having some stupid arguments that I feel like I am not heard or seen. I see that I’ve started to distance myself, not intentionally, but it’s just kind happen. I have no desire for physical touch or intimacy with him. I feel like I almost want nothing be to be left alone. His kisses and hugs used to be so meaningful to me but now I don’t care to receive or given. I also just got back from being away for 6 weeks but I don’t think this has anything to do with me distancing myself. I just feel super exhausted from the arguments and I don’t think I can bounce back to being all lovely while feeling not heard by him :(

Well of course if you're not feeling emotionally happy in the relationship you're not going to desire physical closeness. If this is the same guy you've been with for a while the relationship has pretty much been crap for most of it so I'm still not sure why you're sticking around.

You’re checking out of this relationship because you’ve been unhappy in this relationship for a very long time. It’s time to just move on and find someone that treats you right:

Just saw this {r3j2JhNl5} you made back in January saying you had been struggling in your relationship for 2 years already. It’s coming close to 2 and a half now. You are wasting your time. He’s not going to change. It’s not going to get better.

Being single is so much better than being in a cr*ppy relationship. It’s never going to get better if it hasn’t already, you need to let go.

We broke up so it’s over

It’s for the best. Please take the time to focus on yourself and love yourself.