guys help me and my bf have been together for 3 months and he has never actually made me orgasm i just fake it because i prefer for him to feel good. yes i cum when i’m intimate with myself but never with a man should i tell him?

Of course, if you don't tell him he can never improve. Try teaching and showing him some of the things you do to yourself.

that’s more on you, if you’re more familiar with masturbating then you should do it while having sex. i had the same problem when i started dating, not cumming with any man at all just tells me that you don’t know your “good” points really well… same problem as me actually

Do not fake it, you’d be shooting yourself in the foot. Have him watch you masturbate and guide him. Don’t be afraid to play with your clit during sex, most people cannot orgasm from penetration alone

help the exact same thing is happening to me and it's been 2 years so now i cannot tell him that i never finished or he'll get mad idk what to do no matter how hard i concentrate to finish i never even come close

@iminl0vewith omg this man has never made you orgasm but you still think he is the only love of your life?? Girl nooooo

@iminl0vewith Someone getting mad at you for not orgasming is a red flag 🚩

@aurielle girl it's not his fault ?? i've had traumas in the past and he does the best he can i just cannot finish ??

@flyaway4me no i'm not saying he'll be mad at me for not finishing, ik he'll try everything to find a solution for that. i'm saying he'll be mad because i never told him

Maybe introduce toys to use during sex? Like a bullet vibrator to use on your clit. I personally had a hard time orgasming with my bf for a long time because I couldn't clear my mind completely of thoughts. Once you get past that hump, and honestly relax, it becomes so much easier. Don't pay any attention to how long it's taking. Don't be afraid to direct him, better yet you could simply sit on his face and focus on your own pleasure: ride his face in any way that feels good. (Can be his d!ck, hand, leg too, whatever brings you more pleasure in the moment). Let it be an experience for YOU, ignoring him for the moment.