Is moving together after 3 months a red flag in yalls eyes?
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Dec 13 22:22
To me i can see why it could be a red flag because it can be considered moving too quickly. I personally wouldn’t move in with someone Ive only been with for 3 months as that is not enough time to actually get to know someone and I never know if we could break up in that time frame. But I guess it depends how comfortable you are with ur partner.
Dec 13 22:33
It would depend how long I’ve known them to me I think. Like dating for 3 months but friends longer or something I think makes sense, but I would be concerned about how well you know someone after only 3 months x
Dec 13 23:09
I wouldnt move in with someone until like 2 years. thats a big thing that can’t just easily be undone and I personally wouldnt feel comfortable doing that unless I knew we were in it for the long run but everyone is different!
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Dec 13 23:29
Do what makes you happy but I don’t think you could know someone well enough to warrant living together after 3 months. If things go wrong it’s a mess to sort.
Dec 14 03:58
Like wanting to move in after 3 months? A red flag is usually something I associate with a person, not a relationship action that you both agree to per se.
Dec 14 14:48
Not a red flag but I think it’s silly to as you don’t know each other well enough
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Dec 16 05:09
Yes!! People don’t show their true colours until many months of a relationship. Moving in is a huge decision and it is a better idea to wait at least 6 (and probably more) months because moving in. HOWEVER talking about moving in and planning for future is not a red flag