Me and my partner had sex Monday night and we haven’t had sex in quite a while and I did feel a little sore the next day and I had light spotting and I still have a little bit today would this have been too rough? Also I had missed my pill Monday morning and took both together on Tuesday morning, will I be okay? I’m on the desogestrel pill.

did you get 30+ mins of foreplay focused on you?

Yeah- which is probably why I was sore

Was it mostly focused on clitoral stimulation or fingering?

If you missed your pill and didn’t take it until the next morning then the Monday pill was missed - desogestrel is a mini pill/POP meaning u missed a pill. Did u have sex after the 12 hour window for taking ur pill in the morning??

@pegasus14 according to what she wrote she takes her pills in the morning so she did fully miss the Monday pill.. @Nay27 this means the sex you had on Monday night was unprotected as you cannot miss pills on the POP. Any sex you had before missing it is still protected but you’re unprotected for 2 days when you miss a pill.