So since my parting ways with the guy I was seeing ( I previously posted about how he blocked me out of his life and broke my heart) I’ve been getting better but he actually did contact me and apologised saying that he couldn’t be in a relationship because of his previous one and we agreed to meet when we go back to university but I don’t know if i should. He’s acting really cold and like he doesn’t really care. What do you ladies think, should I meet him and see if he has an explanation for me?? Also I haven’t been caring for myself enough and I definitely haven’t touched myself in weeks. Can anyone suggest some good ways to pleasure myself alone or maybe some sex toys that you can recommend?? Also do you think it’s a good idea to get to know some new guys when I go back or is it too soon? I could do with some advise, thanks ladies 🥰

@Char19 Nahh don’t meet him. It looked like you was doing well until he contacted you. He’s gonna do the same thing he did so don’t bother with him. Also wait until you’re ready to meet someone new but if you’re go for it girl! Love your life. Also use dildo or vibrator. I don’t use them so I’m not sure if they are good or not x

Definitely don’t meet him, that will just erase any progress you made with moving on from him and will set you right back to where you were feeling hurt and broken hearted. If he treated you badly he doesn’t deserve to be in your life anymore

In terms of seeing new guys, you can do that whenever you feel ready. My personal favorite sex toy is a bullet vibrator, great for clit stimulation

@aurielle I just wanted to know the real reason he did it but if you think it’s a bad idea then I won’t meet him 😔 I have a rabbit vibrator and really wanted to try something new, do you think a bullet is similar?

@Tia_xoxo I’m just so scared that if I meet someone new that he will hurt me like the previous one did and I don’t know how to change that mindset

Don’t meet him, it will erase any progress you’ve made an you’ll just pick apart whatever lame explanation he gives anyway. Put him behind you. I would say if you’re scared to date and can’t trust another person won’t hurt you then you’re not ready to move on and date. You’ll end up insecure which is no way to start a relationship. Focus on yourself and building your confidence then eventually you’ll realize a guy would be lucky to have you and not on that they won’t want you and will hurt you.

Don’t meet up with him. He isn’t worth your time and it’ll just get you back in your head thinking about him. Don’t give him the time of day just move on. And if that’s how you feel, you need to tell yourself that each guy is not the same. Just because one hurt you, doesn’t mean another will. Yes getting hurt it’s hard to go into something new without having your guard up like that but you can’t take it out on a guy who hasn’t done anything. Trust someone new until they give you a reason not to trust them.

@Tiff10 @aiimxo you are both so right I shouldn’t keep bothering with him when he will never treat me right!! I’m going to take this time to focus on myself 😊