i get mine from anne summers, i have one that has a wire attached to it so i can do it from a distance but found it didn’t feel as good as it wasn’t really pressed on to my clit, and i have another one that’s curved for the g spot that i love using on my clit i just put my arm underneath his side in missionary which took me a while to figure out best place to put my arm so i wasn’t in the way and in doggy it’s just normal. it’s just preference i think but anne summers is the way to go