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Jul 30
18:13
Would you be upset if your boyfriend said they still care about their ex? Not want them back but just care about them.
 
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Jul 30
18:17
They didn’t even date, she was an older woman and they had a sexual relationship for a year and they both cheated on each other constantly He said they had a good mental connection. And this whole older woman thing just gives me such insecurity every time I see an older woman. I don’t know how to stop this or how to work on it.
 
Jul 30
18:19
I think it’s normal to care about people that you used to be close to.
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Jul 30
18:24
if he’s mentioned once like “i still care about her like i wouldn’t want anything bad to happen to her” it’s not that big of a deal imo bc everyone can care about an ex when you don’t have bad blood. but if he’s mentioned it like more than once unprovoked then i’d b hella sus
 
Jul 30
18:26
@cHERubexe we were playing a game and the question was “do you regret breaking up with any of youre ex’s” and he said yes and I got upset and asked what he meant and he told me that if everything went perfect and the situation was better he would’ve been with her. And then I asked if he still cared and he said yeah and then I asked if he wants to be with her and his answer was no.
 
Jul 30
18:26
No I wouldn’t.
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Jul 30
18:26
This was a month into our relationship, now we are 6 months in
 
Jul 30
18:38
Tbh I think it’s concerning you’re still bothered by this 5 months later. Either trust your boyfriend or break up.
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Jul 30
19:03
It wouldn’t bother me. I still care for some of my ex’s, not in a way that I’d still want to be with them but I wouldn’t wish anything bad to happen to them.
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Jul 30
19:07
It’s normal to care about people you used to be close to. But as @Yi_eune said if you can’t move past that and it’s still bothering you, then end the relationship. Don’t ask questions if you’re going to get answers that you won’t like.
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Jul 30
19:31
I still care for my ex and I’ve been with my bf for almost a year and a half at this point. It’s normal to care about and hope for the best for people that have previously been in your life.
 
Jul 30
21:09
I think his answer is a little weird he regrets it considering he’s with you. But I still care about exes or anyone I once had a connection with even if we don’t communicate anymore or still have them on social media because I just want the best for them and them to be happy at the end of the day.
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