I’m a virgin but I’ve tired to have sex with my boyfriend quite a few times and no matter what we do we can’t get it in, it just really hurts for both of us, and we have tried lube, loads of different positions, foreplay and so much more and it’s just not working. Has anyone had this issue before and how have you fixed it?

If you’ve tried foreplay and lube and it still hurts you should see a doctor for further examination.

How long is the foreplay and what do you usually do?

@Awg1 about 5-10 minutes, and we usually make out, give each other head, stuff with his fingers, but it just won’t go in

@Riverhamby13 that's not nearly long enough, aim for at least 20 minutes, and make sure it's things that are actually mentally and physically turning you on

^Yes foreplay should include around 20+ mins of clitoral stimulation on you. Females need more preparation before sex than males (biologically speaking)

@Awg1 okay thank you will will definitely try that ☺️