Been with my boyfriend for 4 years. The last 6 months i have no interest in sex or masturbation. I have had sex with him a couple of times but i try to get it over with as quick as possible. I feel really awkward because i don’t know why i feel like this. I can tell it’s bothering him and i’ve told him that it’s me not him. I’ve been on microlite for 9 years, don’t know if my body is just changing. Has anyone else had any experience like this. Really awkward

It's completely normal to go through periods of low sex drive, everyone experiences this at some point. It's probably not permanent so don't stress.

find other ways to be intimate!! sex is not the only form of intimacy

Sex drives drop when you get older, it’s normal x

I agree with everyone else but I went through the same thing. Never wanted to have sex or masturbate and it wasn’t until I was single that I realized I just didn’t want to have sex with my boyfriend at the time. He didn’t make me feel desired, he didn’t put in effort into turning me on, and I just didn’t want to have sex with him. But during I would lie to myself and wonder why I never wanted to have sex with him. So I would encourage you to maybe do some thinking into the situation.

@maeve_ He does try though. He makes sex all about pleasing me, and what I want. I am going to come off my pill and change to the coil and see how I feel. Thanks for telling me your situation