Hi everyone. From last post. We confronted each other. And it seems like nothing would happen much. However, a couple of days before the confrontation, we had made a plan to meet. I live in a different state. I will be going there for work, a week ago, the plan was made. After a day and half of no texting (I was curious as well why but I just let it be), I just sent a quick follow up message. “ hi. The plan is still on for you?” And he said yes. So we started planning to go to a place to pray and then eat. Nothing else was discussed. Is this the right decision at this point? And WHAT TO DO? What to avoid? I like this guy, though I feel like yes, I need to give myself time to keep healing myself from my previous relationship (2 years and half).. got to know this makes him feel like a rebound to me. I still want to talk to him in a proper way of knowing him T.T it’s somehow conflicting that I am scared that I will push him away even more tonight. What to do? What to discuss if I should be discussing about it at all?

Has he finally made up his mind then? Or is he still confused?

Unless you’re both enthusiastically wanting it then idk if it’s worth it. For me personally if it’s not an enthusiastic ‘yes I want you in my life’ from both sides then I wouldn’t want it. If you have to convince him or yourself that you want to be together clearly it’s not naturally flowing. This situation sounds tiring.