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Oct 22
21:55
I need a suggestion My best friend and I share our locations, even though I’m a pretty private person. At first, I wasn’t really into it, but I went along with it. One time, I turned my location off for a short while, and she noticed right away and asked why, so I turned it back on. Later, after a stressful day where I almost fainted at work from stress, I decided to rest and then go to the gym to feel better. The next day, she mentioned seeing me at the gym, which made me feel like she was monitoring me instead of just caring about my safety. Because of that, I set my main location to my iPad at home. That same day, I went to help a friend with Christmas decorations, and my best friend kept calling and texting me. When I finally called back, the first thing she asked was where I was. I told her the truth, but she accused me of lying since my shared location showed I was home. I sent her proof (picture and locations), but she hasn’t responded since (that was on Monday) I feel really disappointed because I’ve always been there for her — I helped her move for three days right now in october, took her to the ER and paid for it, helped her when she ran out of gas, and even helped pay for her health license. On top of that, I kind of feel like she’s jealous, especially since my other friend posted a photo at a café I usually go to, and that might have triggered her reaction. Btw we are in our mid 20s So I don’t like her being monitoring me and her reaction like she seems doesn’t want me to have other friend or idk.
 
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Oct 22
22:22
Sounds like you need to set some boundaries. If you’re not comfortable with having your location shared with her then turn it off. Stop paying for her stuff.
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Oct 22
22:26
Definitely seems she has took advantage and is using it inappropriately. I would tell her you do not want to share locations anymore as it’s causing more harm than good. I’d be a little more wary of her going forward tbh
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Oct 23
03:11
🙅🏽‍♀️ stop sharing location for sure!! And if that pisses her off, which it sounds like it will, don’t back down. That’s your peace she’s disrupting and no one needs to be monitored like that! Fuck that shiit
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