been together almost 3 years
me and my boyfriend have been fighting lately, so much so tonight he told me he thinks the spark is gone.
he’s told me before that i need to fix some bad habits, and i never took it to heart, but i’m terrified i’m going to lose him. i told him i’d give him safe, no messages, no calls, nothing. so that he can think, but now i’m worried he’ll come back and break up with me.
some of the things he said i need to fix are:
my attitude (sometimes is really bad - short fuse)
i have a bad habit of being on my phone 24/7 because i like to read but not buy the books. so when i get bored i’ll read, doesn’t matter what i’m doing, or who’s around.
when we argue i kinda throw stuff back at him like, he told me about my phone and i mentioned his work. (freelance - editing) - i know it was stupid, it can drive you crazy tho when you wanna spend time with him but he has a lot to do.
being stubborn, i am really bad for this, can’t help it, 🤦♀️🤷♀️😭 if i don’t wanna do something i will be really bad and just walk off and be moody 😭
because he works at the computer all day he wants to do things like going for walks and get out the house, however i do i job where i’m constantly on my feet and running around, so i just want to sit down and crash, so the contrast is, when he wants to do something and i don’t, i let the stubborn side out and then (as he says) it’s my way to the high way
i know i sound like a terrible person. i promise i’m not. i can be a b*tch but.
idk what to do…. advice???
