So I have these 2 friends in my home country, in which I don’t live there, but I go to visit every couple of months. We are a trio. One of these friends is super genuine and nice but the other sometimes does things I’m not fond of. I hang out with the genuine one less, not by much, only when there’s parties and stuff as she’s not as much of a fan of them so it ends up being me and the other girl. However, this is the third time she’s done something I’m not fond of. So she had a Christmas pyjama get together last year in which she invited by ex (we had an argument and he was really rude to me a few days before this party which resulted in me blocking him). I didn’t take offence to this as I didn’t tell her about the fall out. However, fast forward to summer me and her made plans after her hair appointment which got delayed as she had to go to a friends leaving party (they were going away for uni) so the whole day I was waiting for her, she kept delaying our plans to stay longer at the party. I didn’t think anything of it, just to find out later on Instagram that it was my ex’s party. I didn’t say anything about this as didn’t want to cause drama and she likes to play clueless sometimes. So she has the pyjama party again this year, and I had a feeling she invited him again, so I asked today (she sent out the invites 3 weeks ago). I said is he coming. I asked for peace of mind as if he was I’d have to prepare myself to see him especially as we went through something traumatic together and the last time we spoke he was horrible to me. And she said “yes. Would that make you feel uncomfortable?” And it’s just like, why wouldn’t you ask me that beforehand??? I’m not sure why she would want to invite my ex somewhere. Because I know she’d hate that if I did. I don’t know what to do. I’m tired of being messed around, and she has done some other sly things, but I literally have no other friends at home
