Yesterday I was laying down and my bf came to the bed and started humping my butt. I told him stop and sometimes that can feel violating. He got upset and said that me saying that sounds like sexual assault. Which is not what I was saying. No I dont want to be humped all the time. I dont care if we date. He did it multiple times yesterday. By that time I was over it. I dont like it. I told him any woman will complain that sometimes that is annoying. He goes on to say that im not in love with him???? What??

It doesn't really matter whether this is sexual assault or not imo, what matters is that he doesn't respect your boundaries. "No" means no, whether that's a sexual act or saying no to literally anything like whether you want cereal for breakfast. You don't need a reason and you shouldn't have to repeat yourself. His reaction just needs to be "okay I'll stop" like there's nothing else to say when someone says no and the fact that he's getting upset and guilt tripping you over it is a huge red flag.

Exactly. He doesn’t like that I used the word violating. Im like do you know what violating means? It’s not only in terms of sexual harassment. You were in my space and bothering my body and I didn’t want to be bothered. I didn’t say anything when he didn’t earlier in the day, but by that time I was fed up. It is what it is. He says I’m not in love with him and women in relationships who are in love don’t complain about that. I don’t care who it is. All of us women get tired of that especially when it’s done multiple times a day. @aurielle

@pearls4ever it sounds like you’re dating one of the most immature guys I’ve heard about 😭 he’s playing victim when he’s the one making you uncomfortable. What a pos

🙅🏽‍♀️ nooo honeyyyy. Uh uh! A MAN who LOVES you listensss and doesn’t guilt trip their partner into thinking they’re the ones in the wrong for creating a boundary. Wtfff fr. 🚮 you are allowed to say NOOO. It is honestly scary if I’m in the presence of someone who pushes my no/boundaries. Like no bitch grow tf up and come to terms with the fact that people are allowed to reject you and you don’t have enough decency to respect their decision because it’s not what you want so you wine and cry about it like a damn child.

@stinaaa love ur energy

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