Hey im 17 and need some help please. IMe and my boyfriend have done stuff and last night he put it in and it really hurt but he was lovely and helped me and just stuck to fingers then. We went to a privater place nearby the og place it was like in bushes (explaining all the scratches on my body) Basically i started bleeding and im worried should i get looked at? I dont want my mother knowing she had me really young and would kill me. Im also on my way to get plan B this morning just in case because we were unprotected. Please advice xoxo

It’s possible your vagina tore and that’s why you were in pain, tears can bleed and it takes some time to heal so it’s best left alone. Are you in any birth control?

If you are planning to have sex please find a safe place.. don’t do it in the bushes.

@Yi_eune Ohh okay should i get to doctors ot ill be fine? thanks so much hunnie Im on birth control yes too Yeah the bushes was a spur of the moment one time thing.

@mikimouse you don’t need to go to the doctor now. What you need is at least 20-30 minutes of foreplay focussed on you and your clit to get you ready for penetration in the first place. Maybe use lube too (water based is recommended). You can’t have sex if your body isn’t prepared properly. It takes time, foreplay is a very important part of sex. If you use your birth control correctly then you don’t need plan B. Taking plan B unnecessarily is not good for you at all. It has a massive amount of hormones that will affect you for weeks if not months. If you do not fully trust your birth control then you and your partner should both carry condoms just in case another spur of the moment occurring again.

I think it would also be a good idea to be open to your mom so you have someone to go to when you’re not sure what to do.