How do I test waters with my FWB/ see if they also might want more ideally without jeopardising what we already have? I would be ok to continue this way if they don’t want more, too…
**TLDR:**
I’ve been seeing them for 1.5 years. Started it on strictly casual terms - my suggestion at the time. Stayed platonic friends when they got into a monogamous relationship. After relationship rekindled the FWB vibe, and got a lot emotionally closer than ever before. They confessed they missed what we had while with with her. Lately seeing each other a lot more, spending multiple nights in a row, they said they felt “really lucky to have me in their life”. Been there for one another in moments of distress. They say they’re not looking for a relationship right now because of time commitment but yet we are now spending most of our week together rather than apart, and can’t seem get enough of each other sexually either like never before. I started feeling like maybe I’m catching feelings and wondering if they might be too. I’d like to bring it up to them but in a way that doesn’t jeopardise what we have - I’d be ok switching off my emotional side and just continuing as we are if they don’t feel the same way; I would hate to ruin what we have as I cherish it so much but also don’t wanna miss out on what we **could** have...