Hi so I was wondering if it’s unhealthy when ur bf doesn’t ask anything about you to get to know u anymore even tho we just started dating and he asks for pics of my private areas however he will act normal sometimes and will text me to ask how my day was and that but idk if im being manipulated or not

I think if you’re worried about it, there’s something wrong. What do you mean by he doesn’t ask you about yourself anymore? How long have you been together? X

We have been dating for 2 months and he doesn’t ask what I like or dislike and asks me to send pics of myself but sometimes he will ask how my day is and if I had fun

Like as in hang out with friends or at work

@Booth do you see each other in person often?

Not much due to our busy schedules

@Booth it seems like he’s a bit of an arsehole if you ask me, doesn’t really talk to you about stuff other than nudes? It’s not why you start a relationship with someone. I’d maybe try have a conversation with him and see how he reacts- if he doesn’t change, LEAVE!! Good luck girl 😘

Okay thank you so much x

How would u ask him about it tho

Talk to him about how you feel

You definitely need to talk to him ahout what you're looking for in a relationship

Okay thank you guys

It doesn’t sound like you have much of a relationship. I think he’s using you. He should want more than just getting nudes from you.

Only send nudes if you actually want to do that. I think if you feel like somethings missing from the relationship then there’s something missing. Relationships are built on communication so if you’re feeling anything, say it. You can say something like, ‘I want us both to get to know each other better and talk more about our lives’. Do you ask him about his day and his likes/dislikes? Maybe try initiating that conversation yourself as well more.

I’ve spoken to him about it and he’s apologised for making me feel that way but I’m still a bit cautious about it I told him that and he said ok as a reply and that was it but idk it felt sincere but then doesn’t

Are you okay with the way the conversation went? Because if not then it might just be time to move on. This early in a relationship should be the easy time.

@Booth how long were you dating before you became official? How long do you know him?