So i met this boy for the first time on monday for a chat and it was so lovley. We havnt spoken that much but i made convo and he has me on delivered for 4 hours but has been on. Ik its only so early but what does this mean im so confused
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Nov 20 23:11
4 hours really hasn’t been long. I recommend not tracking when people are online or not, it’s a bit invasive. He will respond when he has the time. Focus on yourself instead x
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Nov 21 02:01
Maybe he’s working. Probably just busy tbh!
Nov 21 06:44
he was able to reply on tinder and not snap so i presume he’s not interested?
Nov 21 07:24
@holly4 you are the only one that can judge your situation. From my perspective (an outsider) not talking for a couple days is pretty normal if you’ve only met recently. Maybe he isn’t big on using Snapchat? It’s not really a texting app anyway.
Nov 21 08:12
Idk you’re still basically strangers so I wouldn’t take it personally that you’re not on top of his priority list to get back to ASAP.
See where it goes and lower your expectations a little bit until you know him a bit better.
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Nov 21 13:13
@holly4 I don't think there's enough evidence to jump to that conclusion.
Nov 21 17:38
thanks everyone i appreciate all ur outlooks on it just need to chill and see what happens
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Nov 21 21:53
It’s completely normal to not want to be social for periods of time especially with people you don’t know super well. 4 hours or even a day isn’t long at all. Don’t put emphasis on messaging, just go off whether he seems interested in seeing you in person and follows through.