Opinions on your partner smoking?
So I’m in a LDR and for 2 years I had believed my boyfriend would only smoke once every blue moon. I found out recently that every week he sees his friend (who is a heavy cigarettes and weed smoker) he smokes around 3-4 cigarets. I was quite shocked bc I do not do it myself and I never wanted to date a smoker. He said his friend (who let’s just say it’s not the best one in my opinion) never pushes him to, but he does it bc he’s there with him and at least he doesn’t do it as much as when he was younger.
Important to say that we are talking about moving in together, there is a cultural difference and I would be the one to leave everything to go to him. So OFC I want to have this talk and make sure there won’t be issues in the future.
He litt just said that in sounding a bit controlling bc I ask him how much he smokes when he sees his friend and that he’s not a smoker (as if every non smoking person smokes more than 12 cigarettes a month) and that I’m making it a big deal.
I DO NOT CARE if he smokes ones in a while when we live together. But every week once or twice???
Idk I’m feeling like we’re too different and it’s becoming a bit scary to move in with someone who has such a different lifestyle than me…