I need some advice, I don’t know why but recently I’ve been feeling so off about my life and relationship it’s just weird, I have been with this guy for two years and everything has been good, some ups and downs of course but recently I’ve just been feeling annoyed, i think it’s also because I’ve been frustrated about life in general, I’m very lost on what I wanna do, sometimes I just wanna get a plane ticket and start over somewhere else without the pressure from my family and everyone (even thought I would never because I love my family and are in a relationship). And I told him that just a moment ago and he said “do it”, didn’t seem like he cared about what I said or what that would imply, and I constantly feel like that, like he doesn’t care about me and the things going on with me and I know I love him so much but I’ve been feeling so off lately about him, and it still hurts me so I really don’t know what it means, I’m just very confused and I feel frustrated cause I feel like a bad person for feeling off about him, idk I just need some advice from someone that is not biased or that doesn’t know me in person

Have you talked to him about how you’re feeling about your relationship?

^ have you been open with him about how you’re feeling? Is he okay? Is he normally so indifferent to things like that?

That's not a very caring or empathetic response from him to your feelings, has he been like that before? I think it's normal to go through times where you feel unsure or stressed about life and that often transfers to and impacts your relationship. But with care and commitment there's no reason you can't get through it.

@Yi_eune well I talked to him that sometimes I needed him to be there for me and listen yk and his reaction wasn’t the best after saying he would be there for me, so that threw me off a little too

@aurielle exactly and I told him that it didn’t seem like he cared about what was going on and how I was feeling and he got a little upset saying that why would I be with him if I didn’t think he cared about me etc, I just didn’t wanna argue ofc but still didn’t like his response to how I was feeling at the moment, I think it may be that too that I’ve just been stressed so it doesn’t help

I just looked at your old posts and everything has NOT been good with this guy, didn't you break up last year?

@aurielle we got back together some time after, our relationship got sooooo much better than the first year or before that one break up, like it improved a lot, he has flaws and everything but I definitely love him, I think I’ve been very stressed lately about stuff and I’ve taken it out on him, only thing I don’t like is that he doesn’t take things seriously sometimes when I’m actually trying to be serious, like yesterday when I felt down

Why did you guys break up in the first place?