Random question: if you traveled across the country for a wedding but got sick during your travels (cold/flu/COVID type virus of some kind) would you still attend the wedding?

It depends what kind of virus! covid or flu i would not attend. a cold, if it isnt super bad, i would.

If it was mild and I felt mostly fine, yes. If I really didn’t feel well, maybe I would just attend the ceremony (wearing a mask etc) and make my apologies to the couple for not attending the rest of the day

No I probably wouldn’t due to the risk of getting others sick.

I wouldn’t want to risk others getting sick.

Hmm you could assess how you feel and if you’re up for it then I’d say ask the bride how they feel about it too