Bf can’t come see me for valentines bc of his money situation and we’ve had it planned for weeks I understand it and I just feel so selfish for crying or feeling upset about it

We’re long distance btw i probably should of added that

I don’t think you are selfish it’s normal to be upset about something like this, especially since you were really looking forward to it.

@GhostFaceLov I had like Polaroids ready and stuff and I was cooking for us and it was our first valentines together :( I don’t wanna cry in front of him tho like on call coz yeah just feels wrong I’m just bottling it up inside of me rn

it is okay to feel upset and cry! you were excited and looking forward to it and the plans changed, absolutely valid to feel sad! maybe plan a video chat date!

@greenwitch think it’s the change of plans after weeks of excitement

I can imagine this really sucks, did he only find out now?

@Horrorfan18 yeah that is disappointing! I get really down when plans change after being excited

I’m so sorry. It’s valid to feel upset. I’m sure he feels terrible and wish he could be with you. Make the most of it. Have a video call! I find there’s so much pressure surrounding Valentine’s Day. Next time you see him do all the things you had planned for tonight!!