So … I’ve been sexually active for 7 years and not once during sex have I taken my top off. I absolutely hate my boobs I’m so self conscious of them because of my areola and I have always been so defensive about it. I feel because of p*rn and social media it has completely destroyed the way I see them and how I feel people would feel to look at them. I’m in a relationship right now and I’ve explained I feel self conscious not for the reason why. But I have it in my head if I show my boyfriend what if he runs away and thinks I’m disgusting. I want to be able to for just once embrace my boobs and just accept they are unique instead of absolutely hating them.

Do you ever look at anyone else’s boobs (or any other body part for that matter) and think they are disgusting? Or that they should be embarrassed or ashamed of their body? I would recommend therapy as it’s clearly a very deep insecurity and you deserve to feel comfortable and confident in your own body. I would also recommend following body acceptance pages online, I like @ lydiareeves_artist on insta, she is an artist who has dozens of casts of normal people’s breasts and bodies on her page, they’re gorgeous and will show you that boobs come in all shapes and sizes and all are beautiful. I promise you that you are not disgusting and your boobs are really not that different to anyone else’s. If your boyfriend was that desperately shallow and superficial that he would actually leave you for literally no other reason than just a glimpse of your boobs then you’d be dodging a major bullet, you don’t want anyone that sad and immature in your life anyway. You are a lot more than just your physical appearance and his love and support for you is not just based on what you look like.

Please don't feel that your body is ugly or disgusting when your boyfriend snows you his wrinkly hair naked mole rat balls with no problem